Episode 22
Ep 022. Too Slow? Too Shy? Too Old? How to Stop Counting Yourself Out of Having Epic Adventures
Have you ever hesitated to join a hiking group or sign up for an adventure because you were afraid you wouldn’t fit in?
Maybe you’ve told yourself:
🚶♀️ “I’m too slow—I don’t want to hold everyone back.”
😬 “I’m too shy—what if I feel awkward?”
🎂 “I’m too old—will I be the only one?”
If any of those thoughts have stopped you from putting yourself out there, this episode is for you.
In today’s episode, we’re talking about how to stop counting yourself out of adventure before you even try. I’ll share real stories (including my own experiences with rejection), practical mindset shifts, and what it actually takes to find your people, build adventure friendships, and create the epic experiences you crave.
You’ll learn:
- Why self-doubt is normal—but not a reason to stay home
- How to choose to belong in any adventure (even when it feels scary)
- The difference between fitting in and belonging—and why you don’t need an invitation to start
- How to embrace rejection as part of finding your people
- Tangible steps to get out of your comfort zone and start saying YES to adventure
If you’ve been waiting for permission to stop holding yourself back—this is it.
Learn more about your host, Allison (aka She Dreams of Alpine):
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