Episode 9

Ep 009. Hot topics in our Backpacking Badass Community: Adventure Planning, Training in the Offseason, & Rock Climbing

In today's episode, I am joined by my employee Kellie, who helps me with so many things at She Dreams of Alpine, including being the Community Manager of our Backpacking Badass Program Community.

In this episode, we talk about some "hot topics" within our Backpacking Badass Community to share a little behind-the-scenes of what our students are thinking about, and what we are coaching on a lot right now, and share some of that advice here on the podcast.

Key Points Discussed:

  • Journaling prompts to reflect on for your 2024 adventures
  • 2025 adventure planning
  • Our new free 5-day challenge coming up in January 2025
  • How do you know what your “limit” is when planning your hiking and backpacking goals?
  • Training for hiking and backpacking in the "offseason" (like winter)
  • Advice for maintaining baseline fitness during the winter time when you can't get outdoors as much
  • How to get started rock climbing if you're a beginner
  • And so much more!

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Transcript
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You're listening to the Adventurous Reinvention podcast. I'm

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Alison Boyle AKA She Dreams of Alpine and this is the

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show that's dedicated to all the adventurous spirits out there who have either

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been transformed by the outdoors or interested in what it

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looks like to step into a new adventurous and courageous kind

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of identity in their life. It doesn't matter what your background is in the

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outdoors, what age you're starting at, or where you grew up. If

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you're curious about the outdoors and using adventure as a way to

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reinvent yourself, you're in the right place. I'll be

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sharing all kinds of personal adventure stories, lessons I've

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learned from the mountains, teaching what I know about the outdoors and leadership,

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and interviewing some amazing adventurous women all along the

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way. I've been coaching women on becoming safe, confident, and

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self sufficient backpackers and leaders of their own adventurous lives

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since 2018, and I know exactly what

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big fears and self doubts can pop up along the way. I have

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so much to share with you, so let's dive in.

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Alright. Welcome to episode 9 of the Adventurous

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Reinvention podcast. Today, I have a very special guest with

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me. That's my employee, Kelly. She helps me with so many things

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at She Dreams of Alpine, like marketing and social media.

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But another big role for Kelly at She Dreams of Alpine is being the

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community manager of our core program, the backpacking badass

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program and community. So today, I wanted to do

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a podcast with her where we talk about some, like, hot

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topics that are happening right now kinda in

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our community this time of the year. Like, what have our students are

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thinking about inside of the backpacking badass community? And I wanted to bring

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her in because she's in there all the time. She has a really good pulse

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and, like, feel for what the students are thinking about, talking

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about. I do too. So we'll kinda, like, be riffing back and forth.

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She's in there supporting, coaching our clients, and so she's very in tune

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with the heartbeat of the Backpacking Badass community. But,

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before we dive into our hot topics today,

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I want to have Kelly introduce herself. So, Kelly, why don't you say

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hello to everyone? Feel free to introduce yourself a bit more. Tell

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everyone about your background, all the things. Hey. Thanks for having

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me on. I'm so excited. So I am the social

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media and community manager. I joined the team, at

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She Dreams of Alpine in 2021. So I

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have a little bit of an opposite story of Allison where I was chronically

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outdoors my whole life, not necessarily being, like,

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an adventure family, but I grew up on, like, lakes and rivers,

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and I loved playing in the forest with my friends. I would, like, beg my

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parents when survivor was a big thing to just let me stay in the

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woods also. And they were like, no. That's insane.

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So I went on to get a degree in biology. That was, like, my

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pathway to be to stay outside with a focus

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in conservation. So prior to She Dreams of Alpine, I

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did a lot of field research and a lot of land management

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and a lot of, like, public lands management and working as a public servant. So

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getting people outdoors. So I've been passionate about that. Servant. So getting people outdoors. So

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I've been passionate about that for a long time. And then just a couple of

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fun facts is that I used to manage over, like, a 1000 acres of public

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land and all the programming and the trails and things that happened on it.

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I've swam with alligators and manatees when I used to

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do freshwater turtle research. And my favorite backpacking

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trail of all time so far that I've done is

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Isle Royale National Park. Yeah. And a lot of our I feel

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like a lot of our community has actually gone and done that. You actually wrote

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a blog post for, excuse me, our She

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Dreams of Alpine blog. So if anybody is interested in doing Isle

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Royale, Kelly did this trip herself. It's very logistical,

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and she put all of the details on, like, how you can plan this trip

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for yourself on the She Dreams of Alpine blog as, like, a trip guide because

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we have a lot of trip guides out there, but not as much out where

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you are living. So Right. Yeah. So I'm in the

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great lakes region. So I really love the great

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lakes. They're incredible. I think people really don't,

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like, I think they underestimate them a lot. So, actually, I was

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reflecting on adventure planning, which we're gonna get into in a minute. But,

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like, I think one of my big big

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adventure goals that I wanna claim is, like, going back to do Isle Royale

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solo. Oh, okay. With somebody last time, and we kinda did, like, a

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loop. Yeah. So, yeah, I think the logistics

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would just be easier solo and Yeah. Like, to do the

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hike exactly how I wanna do it. So I was gonna say, would you do

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it differently? Yes. Because I wanna hike, like,

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harbor to harbor, one end to the other. And so the

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time that I did it, we did a loop from Rock

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Harbor because it was a little less,

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expensive to do it that way because you have to,

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like, use ferries. There is no traffic. So you're getting, like,

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paying every time you have to use, like, some kind of boat

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transportation or seaplane transportation. So,

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yes, I think logistically for me, it'll actually be easier to plan

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solo. So I think that might be some of my

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2025 adventure planning, which happens to be one of our hot

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topics because Yeah. It's on everybody's brain right now in the community.

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Yeah. Yeah. Thinking about, like, what you wanna do. I've been thinking about that too.

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Like, what I want 2025 to kinda look like. I mean, it's

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it's 'tis the time of the year. So okay. So

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hot topics. This is just an idea. If you guys like this

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style of podcast, like, Kelly and I can hop on every, like, I don't know,

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maybe once a quarter and talk about, like, what's going on in the community and

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stuff like that. Definitely let us know if you listen to this episode, and you're

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like, I liked this banter sort of deep dive into certain

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different backpacking topics, and we'll keep doing them. But this

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is a little bit of an experiment. We thought the idea behind it

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is like sharing little behind the scenes of, like, what are

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students that are very backpacking and outdoor focused,

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what they're thinking about, what we're coaching on a lot of right now.

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Because sometimes there tends to be themes, like, especially in different parts of the year,

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we'll have, like, different things that we're consistently coaching people on

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and share some of that advice, here on the podcast.

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So as Kelly alluded to, our first hot topic

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in the backpacking badass community is around 2025

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adventure planning. So, like, people are kinda winding

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down 2024. Looking back, thinking, like, what

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they got to do, what they didn't get to do. They're thinking, like, what do

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I wanna do in 2025? What adventures and experiences do I

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wanna have? And we think, like, it's the perfect time of the year

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to, like, wind down and do some planning. And we do a

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lot of, like, supportive events for this kind of thing too during this

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time of the year for our students. Right now, we're seeing a

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lot of our students even in our community brainstorming their goals

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and adventures in the group. So, Kelly, like, kind of knowing that,

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are you seeing a lot of our clients thinking about 2025 adventures?

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And if so, like, what are you seeing pop up? Oh,

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yes. Yes. And I love I love the way our students are

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handling it. So I have a couple examples that I wanna share,

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because I think they're really cool examples of how to kind

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of some tips, how people can think

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about their reflections, and how people

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are, like, using our community to keep this momentum up. So we

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have Angelique. She is an ambassador out on the West Coast,

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which means she's an alumni. She went through the program,

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and she was doing so amazing and was our ambassadors

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are really invested. Like, even as mentors. Yeah. As

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students, they were really active in their community.

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They showed up for other people. They were really encouraging. And so we

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invite those people to be ambassadors. And so

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in addition to the coaches, you have these peers

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that are in there all the time helping. So Angelique is

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amazing. She's incredible. We've each gotten to hike with her

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and, go on a couple adventures with her. So she is in

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a weekly check-in. She just mentioned she's considering

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some big 20 25 adventures. She's a

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she's like an ultra trail runner. She doesn't call herself an ultra trail

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runner. She calls herself a trail runner, but she's Probably into running a

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lot. Yeah. Long time. She's very committed to her

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running. So she said, she's considering

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things like trail running in the Italian dolomites

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and hiking in British Columbia,

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climbing in Red Rocks, Colorado, but she's

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also done some climbing and winter sports like snowboarding. She did some

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ice climbing, I think, like, last year or something. So

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she's she's thinking about her year in,

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like, chunks. So, like Yeah. Maybe not all of

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these big things will happen, but she's trying to plug them into her

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busy schedule because Angelique is a doctor. Her husband is a

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doctor. They have children. They have 2 children. And so

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they are a very busy family that works Yeah. Long

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hours, lots of commitments. And so she takes her kids'

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schedules, her family's schedules. And so she's planning things for

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herself, but she's also thinking about, like, where she can fit those adventures

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in with family vacations and things like that. So that's

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I really admire how Angelique approaches her

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adventure planning to prioritize time to

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regenerate herself from her very demanding career and home

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responsibilities. Yeah. And then,

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balancing that with being the

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pinnacle of adventure in her family. She is the one that gets everyone

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out. She takes her husband to Havasu Pied falls.

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She takes her kids to Trans Catalina to run

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marathons. I mean, so while also taking

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Sundays for herself to run with her friends or going on a

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solo backpacking trip or coming with us on a backpacking trip.

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So Angelique's incredible. Some other things

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that have been really cool to see is we've got another student, Casey,

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and she is on the eastern US. And she used the

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group recently to gauge interest if anyone wanted to go on

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a 2025 backpacking trip in the White Mountains

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in the Northeastern US. And so I love this I love

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this about, like, our students lately. We're starting especially as we've got the

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community's gotten bigger. We're starting to see pockets

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of people, like, all over the US and even in Canada, and they're like they're

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they're reaching out to be like, who wants to join this trip?

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And doing that more and seeing that more and more. And it

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has me always thinking, like, it's we don't have

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official chapters. These are just people meeting up on their own time.

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But it feels like we're hurdling towards it, you know, because our students

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are so active in their communities and using the community,

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our online community to connect that they're able

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to hang out. So Casey reached out, and

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I expressed interest to go, like, hang out with them on

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my off time. There's another ambassador, Heather, on the East Coast.

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She and I meet up, like, every October for a backpacking trip. She

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also expressed interest. So, I think

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Casey made, like, a little group chat or another

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Facebook group specifically for people that wanted to plan. Yeah. And then

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What time of the year is, like, White Mountains good to go

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backpacking in? I'm not as familiar with that area. It would be I mean, it's

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Like summer? Northeastern. So, definitely, like,

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summer or fall would be gorgeous. Right? Because it's

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just, like, rolling mountains and just

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diverse forest. It's beautiful. So and then on that same

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note, we have another really active group that formed

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this year on their own. We call them the SoCal baddies, but

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it's a group of Southern California women. And Angelique is one of

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them. Another ambassador is one of them too, Carrie. She's

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they're they're both so cool. Everybody at this group is so cool. I can't even,

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like, humble brag on our students because it's not humble at all. So

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the Southern California girls, they just they were really active

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students that were each individually committed to their goals, and they

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were posting so much in the Facebook community that

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we have that they started, like, noticing each other.

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And they're like, hey. I have a goal to

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bag 6 peaks. Do you wanna come on any of those hikes with me?

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And so it was this, like it was it wasn't even

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slow. It was like this fast burn, platonic friendship,

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like, romance. It was great. A lot of these people, like,

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joined around the same time too because I remember a lot of them were not

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all of them, but a lot of them were joining. They they they came

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into the program around January of 2024 last

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year. They did, like, our new year cohort,

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like, you know, live cohort that we do at the beginning of the year

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and got, like, so much momentum there and started doing, like, a lot of

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stuff together. Yeah. That is so true. Yeah. And so

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it was that's interesting when you, like, join the program in one

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of those big open launches. Right? Because you do kind of get those bonuses

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that end up bringing you in with, like, a

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group. So that's always really fun. Yeah. And so what the

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SoCal baddies did is they ended up, making their own

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Facebook group, and then they

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also just posted a survey, and they're like, influence our

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schedule next year. So they're now taking, like,

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organizing surveys for people in their area so they can

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organize different kinds of trips, whether it's day hiking,

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backpacking. I know that, Carrie organizes

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trips with her friends. That's like moms taking their

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kids out to, like, hike in campsites. So

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they're planning all these different trips, not necessarily just like one. They're

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kind of, like, looking at this in a bigger

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scale, more than just one trip. So Right. And what's

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so nice about going on trips with people in the community, which we've

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both done, is that it's it's really fun to go on

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these nonofficial trips because I it's so

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easy. It's, like, relaxing. I don't have to

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worry about and this isn't to say I love taking beginners

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out, but having people be self sufficient

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and then having somebody that I can, like, talk to and

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talk through decisions with. Like, when I go backpacking with our

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students and we're trying to make route decisions or camp

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decisions, like, we can go back and forth and make

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really, really solid decisions together.

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And so it's just like, it feels like a day off,

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you know, like, just getting to enjoy it

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Right. And really sink into it. And everybody gets to do

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that. So, and the

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and being able to talk through, like, how you're feeling through the day

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and not feeling I I remember when I was a beginner and

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nobody really explained plans to me, and I would just

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cry and cry and cry in the back. I would be, like, way in the

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back. I would hope that they would wait for me at junctions

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or hope that the mileage wasn't gonna be, like,

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20 miles in a day. You know? I had no idea

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what my limits were, what to expect, because I had no

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idea what was going on, and nobody was, like, explaining that to me as a

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new person. And so it gives you really good

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perspective, like, when you know all those things and come in with all those skill

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sets, bringing other people out or having people that are self sufficient

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and really strong group contributors. And I know, like, all

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of our students would never, like, go on a trip without, like,

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having some idea of, like, what they're expecting too. Because they're all like, what's the

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trip plan? What what's the safety plan like beforehand? Yeah.

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So you guys are Well prepared.

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So that brings me to a good question that I saw come up in a

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q and a recently about, like, you know, when you

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are a beginner or you're going out there with other people,

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maybe you do have somebody that is mentoring you or

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you're getting into it yourself and you don't have that

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mentor. Where how do you know what your limit

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is? Where where your

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curiosity meets your hiking ability? Like, where does that come into play?

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And, obviously, this changes as you gain experience, but how do you

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know when you're properly equipped to take on

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more difficult trails, especially if

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your intention is to go solo hiking or backpacking?

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Right. I think this is a really good question.

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So, you know, when you are just starting out and especially

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if you like because a lot of our students do join us because they are

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still figuring out the community piece, or they want to go solo more often

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because it's just easier to plan. It can

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be hard to understand, well, like, how when when

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am I taking on too much? Like, when am I biting off more than I

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can chew? And as far as, like, I

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think there's so much, like, we can push ourselves to do, but, like,

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when we're going solo, you know, we're just taking in a lot of different considerations.

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One thing to think about is, like, when you're first starting, you know,

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it's just to keeping to class 1 style hikes, which are just, like,

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very straightforward trails that you're not having to use your

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hands and climb or scramble too much. Those are

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generally going to be, like, technically less hard. And you can find tons of them

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that are going to be challenging in other ways, but not necessarily challenging in

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more technical, like unsafe ways, like class 2 or class

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3 hikes. If you haven't done stuff like that before, it could

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feel like it's gonna start to get scarier. The route finding could get

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a little bit harder. Just depends on where you're going. So

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that's something to consider. And then there are

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obvious certain levels to me where it's like, you want extra technical

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training, like mountaineering, rock climbing. You want

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extra safety technical training with things like that.

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So when it comes to actually testing your limits personally

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on things that are a little less technical or like setting a big goal, a

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stretch goal, like maybe in 2025, you're like, I've done these trips before, but I

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wanna do something bigger in 2025. What I do

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is, like, I'm not afraid to set that goal for myself, but

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I'm always going in with, like, a backup plan

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in case, like, I need to pivot and change my

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mind. Like, you know, unless I know it's

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like, I can figure it out. Like, there's there comes a point when you have,

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like, a lot of experience. You're like, I'm pretty sure I can do this and,

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like but every time you you need to, like, think through

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if things got unsafe or I wasn't comfortable anymore, like, what would I do

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then? If you think through some of those things ahead of time, then

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you can do harder things that are you don't you don't know where

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your limit is. Like, you're trying to figure it out, and be

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free like, feel free to turn around. So, like, an example of this to, like,

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make that more tangible is I remember when I did my very first solo

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backpacking trip, I think it was, like, 2015.

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I can't remember exactly. It it was to do Mount Langley. I

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wanted to summit Mount Langley, which is a 14er in California, and

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I was doing it as, like, a 2 or 3 day trip. And

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I was going out there solo. It was October ish,

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so I knew that there was a little bit of snow. And I

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didn't wanna do technical stuff. Even though I did have some basic

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mountaineering experience, I just didn't wanna do technical stuff alone.

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So my plan was to go out there, scope it out, and then at any

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point where I felt like it was gonna be too much for me, like, with

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my experience at that time, then I would turn around. And that's

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actually what ended up happening is I made it

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to one lake, and the pass that I originally

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was gonna up go up was covered with snow. But then I was like, okay.

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Well, this is not a no go. I know there's another pass. So I pivoted

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my plan to go to another pass, and that pass was sunny,

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not filled with snow, so it had all melted. So I went up that pass,

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and that was New Army Pass. And then I got to the top of New

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Army Pass, and I was looking at Langley. It was covered in

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snow. I was just, like, a little bit nervous about it. So I just, like,

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gave myself permission to turn around. And that was me testing

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my limits and not being sure if, like, I felt comfortable enough

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to do Langley, but, you know, still going for it. So I think

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that's just an example of, like, when you're kind of especially when you're solo testing

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it out. And then when you're with a group, it's similar. Sometimes you have

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to make calls as a group. And if somebody in your group isn't comfortable with

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somebody, you gotta be willing to either, like, coach them through

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it or turn around with them because that can happen as

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well too. Yeah. Yeah. You definitely gotta take your ego out of

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testing your limits Yeah. You know, and not make it

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mean something about yourself. Exactly. And you can go back with

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more information like the Langley one. I was like, I'm gonna come back. And I

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went back the next year, I think, with my friend in in, like, earlier

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season, and we just we did it. And it was amazing, and it was fun.

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But I was, like, still so proud of going out there and trying it, and

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I think you will be too. So don't don't ever, like, count

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yourself out just because it's a bit harder than something you haven't done

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before. So thinking about

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this, can you give me some examples of

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questions, like thinking about adventure planning, kinda coming back to

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that theme? Like, can you give me some examples of questions that you would ask

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yourself this time of the year to sort of look back at

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your prior year in order to start, like,

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framing up and thinking about what kind of adventures you want in the new

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year. Yes. For sure. I'm actually, like, deep,

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deep in this work right now because we do this kind of reflection

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with clients in our adventure

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journal that pairs with our adventure planner.

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And I just happened to, like, be updating I started updating

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both of them this week. So this is very fresh on my

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mind. So I think as

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as, like, with your example about Langley,

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one point that we really like

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to bring across our community in these reflection is no

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matter if you achieved all your goals last year, you barely made it through

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the year, or you landed somewhere in between. There's lessons

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in it all. Right? Allison talks about this a lot of, like, the 5050

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and lessons from mountains. And in my case, I don't live in an

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area with mountains. Right? So it's just like my wilderness lessons.

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And so we've we very much encourage getting

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comfortable with the uncomfortable. So when you

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dive into these types of reflections and some of the questions that we'll get

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into, some of the answers might not be comfortable

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when they come up. Like, when you're reflecting on your year and it didn't

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go how you planned. Right. So still

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But it's still worth asking yourselves those questions. Yes. Yes.

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So it's still worth being uncomfortable. Right? Like backpacking

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is not a comfortable sport or hobby.

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Is an exercise and being comfortable with being uncomfortable.

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Yes. Yeah. And hiking in general and being in the outdoors because it has so

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many unpredictable variables. Right? They are out of our control in so many

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instances. Beautiful actually though, because I think it's like we do get to a point

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in backpacking where we're like, we get comfortable with being uncomfortable because we enjoy everything

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it is about being out there, the adventure of it and stuff.

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And I think that's just such a beautiful metaphor for life. Like Yeah. All the

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things you do in your life. And then at the end of it, you know,

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you did this challenging thing, and you're like, I did

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that. I didn't even think I could make it. Like, at some points, I was

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thinking, you know, they're gonna have to airlift me out of here, but I did

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it. You know? And Yeah. So that's really transformative

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in your life, like, off the trail too. So in the reflection,

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in our adventure journals that I just started reupdating

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for 2025. It's kind of in, like, 3

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parts for the journaling. Right? And then you get this the

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adventure planner is, like, the actual planning. So we always recommend

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to do the reflection first to guide the planning.

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Before you move forward. Yes. Go slow to go fast. Yes.

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So the three parts of the reflection is

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first, we guide through or guide students through reflecting on

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the previous year. This is gonna be questions like,

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what did you love doing? What did you do a lot of?

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And what were you proud of doing? What skills maybe you

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picked up along the way? What did you not get to

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do? Did you struggle with anything? Mhmm.

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And how do you feel about all those things? That's a really

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important one. Right? Like, really asking yourself honestly

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how you feel about them and then asking what you want more

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of. Like, maybe you wanna uplevel an adventure.

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Maybe you wanna try something again and get your I call them,

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like, redemption arcs. I don't wanna call them revenge because

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that doesn't feel like the right emotion. But it does feel

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like redeeming when you get to go try something again and

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see in very, like,

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tangible way your improvements. Like, maybe you got further on the

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trail or maybe you stayed longer or maybe

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you stayed solo, or you stayed the night. You know? It could be

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so much. So I I think those questions are great too because it

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also can help you, like, look at them and be like, what was the

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reason why I didn't get to do some of these things that I had

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originally wanted to do? And do I like my reasons? Because sometimes I

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think we make a decision. We had a plan at the beginning of the year,

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and we're like, I wanna do this thing. And then later we decide, like, for

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whatever reason, it's not a priority, like and we have our

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own backs in that decision, and it feels clean. But then sometimes,

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like, we don't do something, and we're like,

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I was you know, I wish I would have. Like, I Right. It

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like, you can see the reasons behind it are, like, maybe you were

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doubting yourself. Maybe, you know, for whatever reason it

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is. I don't know. But And I Yeah. I think

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too that, I just lost my train of thought on that

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one. So yeah. Well, you can it just gives you a lot of insight. You're

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like, okay. Well, how do I wanna show up to the next year? I think

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that's what's so important to the reflection piece. And doing the

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reflection, this is the thought I have. Doing the reflection at the end

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of the year, like, sometimes when you're in it,

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you don't even know what's causing those

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things. Right? Like, sometimes it takes, like, time and distance to get

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clarity. And so giving yourself

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time to sit down and actually dedicate

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looking back on it and being in the feelings of it

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when you're not so emotionally charged. Right? Because, like, when you're in it, you're all

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in your amygdala brain, which is, like, really hard to think logically

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when you're thinking from the emotional brain. So the

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reflection at the end of the year is really powerful because

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you're not as deep into the things as you were, and you can take the

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ego out of it a little bit. Don't skip this step. Like, I think it

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really helps the next step. Yes. Yeah. It really helps with

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the clarity and and really getting clear on what you want and

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why it's important so that when you don't

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have motivation, which will happen, motivation isn't like

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you know, you don't just do stuff because you're motivated. Sometimes it's just you have

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to push through it. So then we after we do all this

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reflection, we guide students through a brainstorming session.

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And this is where we ask them to get bold. Like, it

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doesn't have to make sense. Right? Yeah. A couple episodes ago,

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you interviewed Marie Pierre, and she went from being,

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like, a pretty new backpacker on a 4 day trip

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to one day quickly deciding she was going to

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try to hike the Pacific Crest Trail, which is hiking

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from Mexico to Canada. That's a huge that

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didn't make sense to her. Right? But so your big goals don't have to

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make sense. But if you're thinking about them, capture it. Write it

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down. And ask yourself what your most

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adventurous year ever would look like for you. And

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I wanna emphasize for you because

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comparison will suck all of the fun out of everything.

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Yes. It's going to steal the joy. And this is a great example having me

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and you talk. Right? Like, UK you born and

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raised in Texas and then moved to really outdoorsy

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places, moved to mountains. I'm born and raised in

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Indiana and stayed in the Great Lakes region.

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So my big adventures don't always look like yours.

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But, like, at the beginning of the podcast, I was like, oh, I've swam with

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alligators and manatees when I used to do turtle research. So

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it's like, you can create big adventures no matter where

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you are. You just have to be clear on what kinds of adventures are

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important to you, and, like, don't worry about what big

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adventure looks like to somebody else. So

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That's a great point. Be bold in your brainstorming session.

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Just even if it doesn't make sense or you don't know how to do it,

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and there's tons of tips even in the, you know, a couple

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episodes here in the early episodes that

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will help you, like, figure out those possibilities. You just

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have to be open to figuring things out and

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And give yourself time, you know, like, you know, I mean, actually, in

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the brainstorm, I always encourage people to just, like, write whatever comes up for

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you. You don't have to do it all in 2025, but just, like, write

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anything that's, like, on your heart. And then, like, we guide you through like a

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planning process. Like Right. If you end up joining us for one of our events

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where we kind of do this process with you, which we'll do a big event

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in January, but we will guide you through like, okay, like, let's

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get clear about what 2025 will look like. But in the brainstorming

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process, I would just write anything and everything that's, like, on your heart. Right.

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Because you don't know what's possible yet because the plan may morph and

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change, and you may, like, meet somebody that's, like, you know,

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like you did. You met some or your coworkers were like, come on this

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epic backpacking trip that Yeah. You didn't even know that. Through

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the beginning of the year. Yeah. Yeah. And so and while you're

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brainstorming and you're just getting every idea that comes out no matter

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if it makes sense or not, there's probably going to be

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one that stands out that does make

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sense at least a little bit, like something where you're like, I

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think I could actually do this one. And it's going to

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be something that's really exciting. And so the last one, after you

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do this brainstorming, the last part is picking that

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big goal from your brainstorming. And, again, because

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you're not having to fix that. Isle Royale? I don't know. I'm trying

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to figure some out. Like, I've got I've that's probably my thing. Work a little

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early. You still have time to think about this, but I was just curious. Well,

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the and then the Italian dolomites are on my heart too. I think a hut

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to hut would be fun because that's Italian dolomites are beautiful. I've been there. I've

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never lived, like I haven't spent a ton of time there, but they I have

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seen them. They're very And the hut to huts just sound like Sounds wild. Like

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the refugios? That just sounds so luxurious. Isle Royale

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is also luxurious. I didn't dig a single cat hole there.

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So, anyway, when you claim that's I was following L and

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T. I just wanna be clear. They have outhouses at every campsite. So

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This is different. Yeah. Yes. So after you claim your big

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goal, you're gonna make a list of all the

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small things that need to happen. And you had a really

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good episode, episode 8 where you

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did this with your rock climbing. So I encourage people that if you didn't listen

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to episode 8 and you're interested in really guiding you.

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Journaling prompts that are, like Yeah. Different than these. Yeah. It's

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Allison's big reflections on her big rock climbing goal that she set

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for 2024. So after you claim this big goal, you

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can start making a list of, okay. What do I need to actually do to

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make this goal happen? And you may not again, you may not know all the

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answers now, but you may know your job offer. Have an

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idea. You're on you're on ramps. Right? You're on ramps to get onto

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this big goal. So it may be like making friends,

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finding a community, putting yourself out there, learning new

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skills, getting outside more,

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training, maybe working with a trainer or getting

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a gym membership. So that will

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start giving you more confidence on being like, okay. This is

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this big goal is now more manageable. Yeah. So

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those are kind of, like, the that 3 part

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reflection process that we put into our

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adventure reflection journal at the end of this

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year for So stoked to see. Kelly always,

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like, creates, like, a beautiful new design for our

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journals and our planners, and we have, like, a fun theme this year.

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We're, like, kinda leaning into the era tours sort of. I'd

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theme, like, spinning off of, you know, Taylor Swift a little

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bit, but we're calling it your adventure era.

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Yes. And, like, new girlhood, I'm gonna lean into themes.

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Katie and I on the team were working on,

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some of the planning for that event, and we were just, like,

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girling out. It was a lot of fun. So there'll be a lot of, like,

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cutesy things. And that's I like designing stuff like that because so much of the

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outdoorsy stuff, you know, it

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doesn't have I think that, like, our shoes are covered. Like, we

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there's always, like, pink and purple hiking shoes or running shoes.

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But I feel like there's not as much, like, really hyper

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feminine, girly, outdoorsy stuff.

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So, yeah, I like adding things into our special

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events that are a little more girlhood. Yeah. I mean,

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it's just leaning into all different aspects. Because, I mean, like, I wouldn't even say

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we're, like, always super girly all the time, but, like, I don't know. I

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just love color. I love bright colors. Like, I just like to I

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like it to be a little bit fun. Like, let's have some fun.

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Everything doesn't need to be olive green, you know, like, and brown.

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But you know, I love those colors, but I love yellow. Don't get me wrong.

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But, like, with a pop of, you know, like some other bright

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color that's fun. I don't know. I think, you know, the outdoor industry is

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trending that way. Like, you're seeing, like, Cotopaxi is super fun. Like, I love

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I love that. So, okay, Everyone, even not

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even non backpacking badass students, they will have an you

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will have an opportunity to get your hands on our adventure planners and our reflection

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journal that we've been kinda, like, teasing and talking about here and those prompts

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that are in that. Because, like, there's way more than just that. That's just a

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little taste. We are working right now on a very

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special event for the new year. I kinda think I already said the name earlier,

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but we're calling it your adventure era 5 day challenge.

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And it's gonna be all about setting the stage for a year that

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is full of adventures in all aspects of your life. So we really

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want you to set the stage in January thinking about, like, mind,

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body, soul, like friendships, how you wanna grow and helping you

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create like a vision for that plan and

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stepping into like and stepping into, and if you're

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already adventurous, like really getting clear on what that looks like for

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you. Again, in the new year, like, kinda going back to that

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concept of always redeciding, like, how you wanna show up and being really

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purposeful and being really intention intentional about what

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you bring into the world. So that 5 day challenge, we're still working on

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it. So we don't have, you know, a sign up page or anything yet. So

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just stay tuned. We're gonna be talking about, like, honing your

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adventure mindset, creating that 2025 adventure

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plan, creating your dream adventure community, because

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this is a huge one, I think, for people is, like, I wanna find more

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community. So I wanna talk about that. We're gonna have a day dedicated to community.

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Talking about strengthening your adventure body, what is that gonna look like for you in

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2025? And then filling in those adventure skill skill

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gaps that you might have that you wanna work on. So stay

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tuned for that event. We will probably announce on, like,

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how you can register for it. It's gonna be a free event, that at the

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end of the month, keep an eye out for it. I'll definitely mention it here

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on the podcast, but a better way to make sure you don't miss

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announcements is to make sure that you're on my email list.

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I'm trying to think of a quick URL. You can join our email list really

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easily by getting on our starter kit. So if you went to she dreams

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of alpine.com/kit, I believe.

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Adventure. Or adventure. We have lots of time on that

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stuff. Adventure. I will put it in the show notes. So I have all

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these short URLs and I forget them. Sometimes I should have like, added it to

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my notes. But, okay, we spent a lot of time on adventure

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planning. Let's move on to hot topic number 2.

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And the second hot topic that was, you

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know, big in our community this year is kind of training in the off season,

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which I love because I think a lot of us in this time of the

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year tend to wind down our adventures in the winter season.

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And I sort of have, like, 2 thought processes around training

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during this time of the year, but I wanna hear your thoughts first, Kelly. So

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what is training in the winter season usually look like for you?

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Crocheting and drumming. Well and I just say that

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because the slower season the slower season, right, when a lot of us do wind

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down, it does allow me to shift the focus to other passions

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where I'm not trying to, like, you know, pack in as much time in good

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weather as I can. So I was like, to be clear, she's not like crocheting

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and drumming and hiking at the same time. I might be. So

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in my heart. So, yeah. And I really noticed when I was

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busy with outdoor adventure goals this summer training

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for, like, our hike in the Eastern Sierras, my drumming

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suffered. Right? Or, like, I didn't crochet as much. So I I kinda

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yeah. So I kinda lean into my creative passions when I do,

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like, spend less time outdoors. Yeah. But ways that

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I do still like to keep my body moving or

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connect outdoors, I've been doing yoga every day.

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I'm, like, over 30 days strong with that with,

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you know, one of those YouTube 30 day challenges. So I like

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doing that, and doing it at home makes it very easy.

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You know, I can just get up. I do it. I notice if I don't

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do it in the morning, like, I suffer for it. You know, throughout the day,

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my body is like, please stretch. So I also am a

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roller skater, and I love roller skating at the

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rink. Mhmm. It's like it's like going clubbing for me.

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It's going jam skating at the rink. I also

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do love dancing, and we have a great

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dance studio here in town where I live. And so on

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occasion, I will check their class schedule, and I will sign up

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for a dance class. Once in a while, I get a motivation to

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go to the gym. I have, like, Planet Fitness, so it's not

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expensive for me to keep a gym membership, but I'm not very consistent with

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my gym usage. It's more of, like, training

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for our guided trips in the Sierras where

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I'm, like, going to the gym to use treadmills for elevation training or

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doing Right. Cross I do try to, like, fit some kind

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of strength training in. Yeah. Or cardio.

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And we also just got our first bouldering gym

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for rock climbing. We don't have a top rope gym or anything yet.

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So I may try that this winter, but it means I have to give up

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my, like, off season long nails, which I don't know. Long nails of

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climbing. I keep trying, and then I hate them. As soon as I start climbing,

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I'm like, no. I can't do this. I know. And they're like, you know, I

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grow them out, and so they're mine. And so I take a lot of pride

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in them, and I just like Yeah. It's I really like to leave. Nails.

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Yeah. When I'm not being a dirtbag, you know, it's nice to, like, lean into

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that. But, and I also do love winter hiking because I

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I really especially for people that maybe are a little apprehensive

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about winter hiking, I do encourage people to go hiking in every

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season, especially if you live in an area that has

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different seasons where nature changes.

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Because it actually is very fun to see your favorite

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trails and landscapes different times of the year.

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And I know that, like, when I'm out hiking, you know, like, it's it's a

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totally different vibe. We have beech trees here, and they keep their

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leaves in the winter. They get all crispy, and they're orange, and

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they're they're very ghostly, like, among the kinda gray

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and white landscape. And I just love that I can hear them

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rustle in the winter. And it's like the loudest thing in

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the forest because everything else is, like, dampened with the snow. Right? So

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there's just so much to see. Even if you've

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been to the trail over and over and over and over. One of my

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favorite joys too in the winter hiking is, like, I love being bundled

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up, but then my face showing and being cold. Like, I love that feeling of

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my, like, my face being cold, but, like, I'm still cozy and

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I'm out there hiking. Like, I don't know why. I just really like that.

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Yeah. There is something about, like, being when you learn how to,

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like, layer and, like, the type of gear you're gonna be

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comfortable in, there is like a oh, this feels like

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so great. And then if you get warm, you know, you get that brisk breeze

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on your face. So what about you? What is training or, like,

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staying active when you slow down look like? Or do you slow

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down, Allison? Yeah. You know, like, I think it depends on the

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year. I think I actually I tend to

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some years I treat this more of a season arrest, kinda like what you were

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explaining. Like, I slow things down. My goals are more just about being consistent

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and, like, rather rather than being around big adventure where it's, like, in the

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spring and summer and fall, like, tend to be when I plan more of my

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big things, and so I'm training more. So, yeah, winter usually is

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slower in that regards, but

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climbing, I feel like you don't really ever have to stop setting big

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goals. Like, you can keep going. So a lot of my focus this

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year has been climbing, and that's been consistent. And, like, I

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still have big goals around that. And, like, I guess when this

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airs, I will be in Spain, I think, when

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this episode's airs. But, like, yeah, that's been a big goal. Like, I wanna

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I'm hoping to get some I'm hoping to

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get some, like, you know, tough leads out there and, like, do some

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big things. So I haven't really ramped climbing down.

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But I think when at the end of the day, when it comes down to

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it, like, for you personally, you just have to decide what kind of seat I

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think no matter what you do, it doesn't matter what you

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decide your season's gonna be like, but I just always encourage people be

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purposeful about it. You're like, I want this to be a season of a

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rest, and then don't give yourself shit if you're not, like,

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doing big things because you purposefully decided you wanted it to be a

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slower season and, like, own that decision. And then if

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why I love seeing nature change. Right? Because we Yes. We love

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talking about getting lessons from nature. Yeah. Nature And

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so being with nature and

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being attentive to nature, like, nature slows down.

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Trees go dormant. Animals go hibernate. Like, we can we

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can look into the word. Cues from the seasons. Yeah. Yeah.

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And they don't always have to line up with the seasons either, but you can,

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like, allow yourself to have these different seasons

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where consistency and perfection are, like, 2 different

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things. Right? Like, you can continue to be consistent with something and take

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a rest. Like, you don't have to have perfect attendance or always

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be doing all the things all the time. Right. Exactly.

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So what kind of advice would you give someone who wants to

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still, like, move their body, maybe keep a baseline fitness during this?

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Like, they wanna have a season of rest, but they wanna keep a baseline fitness.

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But what it like, also, this comes up a lot. Like, what if

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they're struggling because they can't get outdoors as much because of snow,

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because it's busy, all the things? Like, what advice would you give that person?

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Yeah. So get creative with the ways

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that you move because maybe

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and that's not motivating to you. So maybe making it playful

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or changing it up, especially if, like, monotony is not

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your thing. I know for me, I do have to, like, make it playful, or

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I do have to have, like, diversity in what I'm doing. YouTube

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is a great resource. You can find yoga videos, dance

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videos, workout videos, and those are all at home, so the

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barrier is very low. Right? Like, you YouTube

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is free. You just, like, skip through the ads,

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and you don't have to go anywhere. And you don't have to, like,

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have any special gear. Yes. So YouTube videos are great.

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I love using YouTube every day for, like,

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yoga, but you can find dance videos that can help with

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cardio. You can find workout videos if you really wanna work on strength

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training, like high intensity interval, things like that. And that's like a

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free resource, low cost,

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or no cost at all if you're not buying premium. So you can do it

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at home. No special gear. So that's a very easy way to get a little

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active at home. You might find indoor spaces to walk, like,

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if you have an indoor mall or indoor, like,

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track and field track and then stairwells at work or

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in parking garages too. We have one

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student who did a lot of her training on stairwells at work. Yep. She

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would get a little movement at work, or she'd take a little 10

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minute break to get moving, and she would go walk up and

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down to the stairwells. Totally. You might enroll

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in a group fitness class or hire a 1 on 1

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trainer. Because if you really want to

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spark some motivation, I find that investing money

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and time are 2 ways to do it. Because if you invest money, you're like,

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I don't wanna waste it. Like, I wanna show up for that. Money is kinda

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like an exchange of energy. Like, I wanna show up for

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this, and this is the way I'm showing it and then, like, show up for

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it. Right. And sometimes I think too, and especially I

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feel that I I observe this with women a lot,

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is that it's really hard for us to show up for ourselves. And

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so sometimes having someone else you might be accountable to, which

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may not be, you know, if you aren't doing this with friends, you

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know, still signing up with that 1 on 1 trainer. And I know, like,

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Planet Fitness, for example, that's included in any membership. You can

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Mhmm. Get you can take advantage of a trainer at no

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additional cost. Right? So, like, showing up to that appointment.

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And then once you start showing up more, like, you learn how to show up

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for yourself and let go of some, like, guilt

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or whatever self judgment you have on that kind of stuff.

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Yeah. Like, Michael and I actually recently got a,

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like, a gym membership in our local area because we

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were like in the winter, sometimes we make more excuses about not going

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out because we don't wanna be cold. Like, especially when we used we

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live really close to trails, like, right out the door. So sometimes it's

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less motivating to be like, go run outside when it's freezing or there's

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snow. So we did get a gym membership for the we're trying it

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out this winter season. We may keep it because it is pretty affordable, a little

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bit more expensive than Planet Fitness, but actually pretty affordable. I

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think $25 a person. And it gave us access

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to sauna, and we're just doing some, like, strength training

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stuff with it. So, yeah, like, sometimes mixing it up and

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Yeah. Get this all this helps. And I think enrolling in, like, a

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gym like you guys do and having specific goals, like if it was a rock

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climbing gym or enrolling in a group fitness class, also

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puts you out there to start building that adventure community. Like Mhmm.

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If you're going out to a group fitness class, then there are probably

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people or a gym, probably people there that have

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some kind of similar goal as you. Maybe it's fitness. Maybe

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it's getting better in adventure or adventuring more. And then it's just

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being able to, like, start those conversations

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or, you know, it's just putting yourself in spaces where you're creating more

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opportunity to to to make things

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happen that you want to see happen in your life. And sometimes we talk

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about this with our clients. It's like when you step up into doing something, it

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kind of attracts people around you to wanting to do it too. So it's like,

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if you signed up for a gym membership and your friends are seeing you go

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every week to be strong during the winter season when a lot of people are

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like kind of neglecting that, that can be motivation sometimes to your friends to be

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like, okay, I'm doing this with you. Like, what days of the week are you

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going? Like Yeah. I find that happens a lot. You

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you end up eliciting a lot of community when you start training in the

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gym for like big adventures. Yes. Yeah. A lot of my

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friends will also be like, hey. I also wanna just get healthier.

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And going to the gym with somebody and walking on treadmills and talking for an

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hour sounds a lot more fun than doing it by myself. So, yeah,

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I will, like, just go to all my friends and be like,

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hey. If anyone wants to join me on hikes or, like, especially

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going to the gym. So enlisting a friend if you can. But, again, if you

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don't have those friends, you're gonna have to, like,

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go practice being that friend. Right. Yeah. Then a lot of my

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friends will tell me, like, wow. I got on so many adventures this year because

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of you. I was just having a conversation with a close friend, and she was

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like, I did so much because of you. And in the same way, I felt

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the same about her in a different aspect of my life with, like, music

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is we both had similar goals. Maybe they weren't

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exactly the same, and then we supported each other and got to do

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some really cool things together. So

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So be the friend. Yeah. Be the go be the friend. So,

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and with like, if you're just nervous about trying and we we're talking about

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winter, but this could be true for, like, summer in, like, the

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desert. Right? Like, whatever your off season is. So I

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would encourage you to, like, try winter sports. Like, if you can learn how

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to do it safety like, safely, because that's the big thing with the off season.

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Like, not only is it uncomfortable due to temperature

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differences, but, like, it might be a little scarier because the risks

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are higher because of the temperatures. But you might surprise yourself when

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you learn about stuff. So you might try winter sports you never saw yourself

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trying, like snowshoeing, things like that. And we do have

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a winter maybe this is just reminding me, like, I'll add this in the show

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notes. We have a winter hiking and camping workshop. It's

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not expensive. If you want to, like, explore that, you

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can check it out. It's like a help you be prepared for winter

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adventures sort of thing. Yes. So this also,

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on the topic of training, we got this question from one of our clients,

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Carrie, recently that I thought would be cool to talk about.

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So, she asked if my trip is more than 10 weeks out, should

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I wait to start training, prolong based training, or

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cycle my training plan assuming that she has,

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like, 18 to 20 weeks? Yeah.

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That's, a good question. Like, just for context for people, like, in the

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backpacking badass program, if you're setting up particularly, if you're

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new to backpacking and it's your first time setting a goal or you're setting a

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big goal, we like to create, like, a 12 week, you know, 12

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weeks out from your goal training plan for your bigger goals. So this is kind

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of where Carrie's question is coming from. So you might be like,

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I know I have a big trip planning for, you know, the summer, early

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summer or spring even, and maybe we're way it's

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still, like, pretty far out. You know? You have, like, 18 or 20 weeks till

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then, so you're not quite starting your 12 week plan. What should you

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do? And for me, that's like I think it's

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totally up to you. Like, what feels fun for you?

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I think it really can depend on the trip. Like, what kind of trip is

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it? I know we have a student, like, training for Kilimanjaro right now. And so,

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like, maybe they wanna extend their training and, like, take

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it even deeper, like, further out.

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So if you have a really big goal, like, maybe

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extending that training to be a little even further out than 12

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weeks. But if you're just kind of looking

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to create a base kind of what we've been talking about this,

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just start building a chill base training. And I

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think one of actually the most important things is, like, what what you can do

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to set yourself up for success for the 12 week training plan

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is building in consistency. So if you can start working

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on showing up 3, 4 times a week to

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hike, to get on a treadmill, and that's just something you start ingraining

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as, like, a habit, like a consistent way you show up for yourself now,

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then when you get to your training plan, it's gonna be so much easier

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to, like, show up for those training

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hikes and stuff that you're doing for your specific goal. So that

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would be, like, my biggest thing is, like,

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practicing that consistency goal.

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Okay. So I think, like,

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let's we talked a little bit about some of our clients, what they're doing,

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what they're doing with training. I think, like, let's just real quickly

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talk on the last hot topic because I know that we need

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to wrap up this. We have some we both have some time constraints here,

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so we're kinda, like, gonna zoom through our last topic a little bit.

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Allison and I could talk forever. Yes. I I know. We were like, oh, we

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can do this in an hour. And I think that This is why this is

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why we had to be coaches. Right? Because we just look like we need

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certified yappers on talking about the outdoors. So our 3rd hot

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topic in the community that we had, like, listed for this conversation was

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around rock climbing, actually, which I think it

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has a lot to do with the fact that our clients, like, when they get

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into the hiking and backpacking in the outdoors and start kind of

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stepping into their adventurous identity, they start seeing that they can do

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things that they never knew that they could do

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before. Like, rock climbing tends to be one of those things that wasn't on their

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radar before, but now they're like, I wonder, like, if I would enjoy that, if

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I would be into that. Why do you think

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we're hearing a lot about climbing right now in our backpacking badass community during

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this winter season, Kelly? So first, I definitely agree

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about the identity shift because I think when our students start building that

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confidence with hiking and backpacking, that translates into all

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kinds of aspects of their life and outdoor adventure. Right? They start,

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what what else can I do? And so many of those skills that

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we teach will apply to different adventures. Yeah. So,

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that's all to say that, you know, people can join the backpacking

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badass and take it so much further than backpacking with the

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skills, confidence, and the know how that they gain. So And the

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coaches because a lot of us climb. Yes. So I think on that

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topic, like, with rock climbing, it's

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it's on the top of everyone's mind right now because you

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have your climbing goals that you've kind of been talking about checking in

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with on your Yeah. We do a momentum Monday to claim your goals

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and a follow-up Friday posts in our, in our

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group so that so it's like weekly reflection like we

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talked about earlier. Like, okay. If you didn't get them done, that's

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okay. But, like, why? But, also, we do encourage, like, rest is

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a goal. So, anyway, you've been very vocal

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about your climbing goals. And the Spain trip, which

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when this airs, you'll be out on, and so that'll be of an exciting

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recap to watch for on, like, our social media

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channels. We've got the 2025 Joshua Tree

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Retreat. That's gonna be in March. So right now, you and Kate are working

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with clients to kind of get people prepared, and you do a

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few check-in calls with them. Right. And Kate,

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also, we're celebrating her recently because on our team.

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Yeah. Yes. Kate is our blog manager. She got SPI

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certified. Yeah. So that is a rock climbing certification

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for anyone unfamiliar. And she's an awesome coach, honestly, all

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around, but especially for people that want to expand into climbing.

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And she is she was explaining to us when she was getting

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trained, and she was taking her SPI certification and

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exam. And, also, she was like she's guide she's a rock

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climbing guide as well on the side. And she is,

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like, one of few women guides in her area and maybe,

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like, well, even fewer that are actually SPI certified. So she

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would be able to be more specific, because I'm not a rock climber.

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So but we've been celebrating her a lot in the community. And so

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she often talks about in her q and a calls

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how people can get into rock climbing and advice for them.

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And she also just happened to, like, know a rock

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climbing coach and was able to recommend them, this person, to

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a student who was looking for a climbing coach. And

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Kate just happened to know a woman that was a coach in

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that student's climbing area. So that was incredible. It's

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interesting. We ended up doing, like, a lot of, kind of side coaching in

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the backpacking badass community for people who want advice

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and stuff about rock climbing. All kinds of stuff too. Right? Like, I

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do kayaking and stuff like that, and we all just have so many different

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interests as coaches and apply our skills in different ways. But I also feel

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like we get a lot of students in their fifties to seventies

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so often, and it makes me reflect on how access to outdoor

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recreation continues to increase for women and other

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underrepresented or marginalized groups that have been

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historically gatekept from these activities

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and outdoor spaces. So, for example, when I was

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studying biology, that was the time when the field was drastically

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changing and shifting to be predominantly women entering the

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field. And so I think about that so often because we do

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get students. We have one student that we've hiked with, and her

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trail name is the 3rd act because she

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is in her sixties deciding

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what this new stage of her life is gonna be after,

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like, getting to kinda focus on herself a little bit more.

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So I think about that a lot in the community with how diverse our

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students are unlike for some women,

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this may be the time, the first time in their lives where they really have

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had the opportunity to get into their outdoor

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passions, or they're reigniting them from when they were,

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you know, in college and then life came and when

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That's so common for a lot of our clients. Yeah. So, yeah, I

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think about that a lot. So Okay. I think, like,

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maybe to wrap this up, really quickly because I know we kind of have a

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time limit. If somebody I think I'm just gonna jump to, like,

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if somebody was asking because this happens in our group. Like, people ask us. If

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I wanted to start rock climbing and learning how to rock

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climb, what would our advice be to get started? And

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so if anybody's kinda like listening to that and they're interested in this, I would

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really recommend that gyms are a great way to start. Like, you can start

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bouldering. Bouldering is very accessible because you don't have to have a partner

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necessarily, especially in the climbing gym. I would I

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recommend a lot of my clients who wanna get started to sign up for an

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intro to climbing class. And I think, like,

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definitely, like Kelly was talking about earlier, try to put yourself out there and

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meet people. Like, actually introduce yourself to people, even if it seems a little

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a little weird. And I a lot of my clients, because maybe they're starting this

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a little older in life, they can feel, like, intimidated intimidated to go

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to the gym and see all these, like, younger people climbing, but, like, don't

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I feel like the climbing community is really open. And

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when you get like, people can look really serious, but once you start talking to

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people, they really are interested in helping you. I don't know if you've had that

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experience, Kelly, when you've been climbing. I feel like I've had opposites. Well, I have,

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like, you know, been in environments where it's mostly young people climbing.

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But the last time I went to, like, a top rope climbing gym, I asked

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a friend to come with me, and it was, like, 2 and a

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half hours from my like, where we live. And

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it was a Monday, so it was wonderful. The gym was empty. But

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this one woman showed up, and she reminds me of a woman

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she reminded me of, I think her name is Deidra. It's Alex Honnold's

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mom. She wrote the book, The Sharp End of Life. So this woman,

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I think she was probably in her sixties. She climbed

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every single route in that gym, and she

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flew up those climbs. So I think that even putting

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yourself out there and putting yourself in these spaces, you are going to

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be surprised at the people who are also

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showing up. Exactly. Like, it's all kinds of people. And I think my

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biggest encouragement is just, like, to choose to belong

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even if it feels a little awkward at first. If you're, like, new to it

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and you don't know what you're doing, like, be willing to feel a little awkward,

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a little out of place. It's okay to be new at something, and

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just decide that you belong there. And then you're gonna that's when you'll really

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open up to, like, how rock climbing can be really fun,

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and it can help you feel stronger. It's like a fun way to, like, do

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strength training and all of those things. In that regard,

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I think, like, another great way is, like, joining an outdoor guided

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experience, kind of like we do with our Joshua Tree climbing retreats

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and other climbing retreats that we do because it's a safe place

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to explore if you like climbing in a fun environment with a great

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group of women. And then if you have friends you can enlist

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on the learning journey with you too, like Kelly was mentioning

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inviting her friend to the gym. That can be a fun way,

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but, you know, there's all kinds of ways that you can get started

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with rock climbing and seeing if it's for you and seeing if

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you enjoy it. There's definitely safety considerations that you wanna

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learn as you're rock climbing. But going to a gym, a lot of times they'll

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start to introduce you to some of those safety concepts. And then if you wanna

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take it outdoors, either joining a group of people that, like, you

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know, are have those certifications that can teach you safely, or you

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can start taking classes where you can learn some of those things.

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So, Kelly, I don't know how you are in time. I think

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you had mentioned that you needed to bounce. It's okay. I've

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got some time. So I one point that I do wanna add

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to what you were just saying about, like, showing up and

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putting yourself out there is that your desires

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for yourself can inspire others. Yeah. So

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your efforts to create more adventure in

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your life may have this ripple effect, whether it's on

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your friends, your loved ones, friends that

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you're making. It might be be something like you know, I'm in

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a in a climbing desert. Where I'm at,

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there's not outdoor places to climb unless I go 5 hours

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away or indoor places. We just got a bouldering gym, so that's nice.

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But, I know a lot of people that

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did so many DIY projects, whether I mean, it was

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just they made whatever they wanted to do work. I remember being

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in college and knowing people that made bouldering gyms in

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their garage or our little local outfitter,

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our gear outfitter, they had they just

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used a little basement space to make a tiny little

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bouldering area for the serious climbers in town.

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So whatever if you, like, stay committed and you stay

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open to whatever that looks like, you know, putting a rank

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wall in your garage or basement or having a little

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finger crimps. One of those in Bakersfield. Yeah. One of

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your finger crimps, you know, over a door that you just hang on, you

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know, a few minutes every morning. That's just you know, showing up for

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yourself is gonna have this ripple effect. And you may

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be, you know, this titan in your community that

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moves the needle forward for outdoor adventure for yourself and

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others. So I think that's so true. I think it's so true.

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And I think our students see that a lot, and I got this is what

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I really encourage with community. Like, I think, like, if you

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show up for yourself first and you, like, get out there,

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then you will start noticing. You start to attract that community that you're

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looking for and, like, being that example, because I think so many

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people are too shy to go for it. And so, like, you stepping

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into that kind of brings people out of, like, their shell and

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wanting to try it too. So And what a beautiful life, right, to

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share that with others. It's just taken me so many cool places. I could

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talk about it forever. I know. We could talk forever,

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literally. But I think this is a great place for us to wrap up

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our very first hot topics in the backpacking badass

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community, for this episode. Again, if

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you enjoyed this style of episode, you like to hear us, like, have some

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banter on some topics that are coming up in our community, what our

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thoughts are around it, maybe this will be something that

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we do more often as well. So definitely reach out, let us know, Instagram or

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email or anything like that. But thank you,

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everyone, for chiming into this episode. Thank you, Kelly, for

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joining me in this conversation. Thank you so much for

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having me. I can't wait to do this again. Yes. Definitely.

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Alright, everyone. We'll talk next week and see you

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soon. Bye. Hey. I

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wanted to thank you real quick for tuning into the show and listening all the

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way to the end. If you love this episode and you want deeper support

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in becoming a safe, confident, and self sufficient hiker and backpacker, then

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head over to shedreamsofalpine.com/waitless

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to learn more about our backpacking badass coaching program, where I teach

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you absolutely everything you need to know to be self reliant on the

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trails and stop waiting around on others for the adventure

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invite. So I'd love to help you more in your journey of stepping into

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your adventurous identity, and that program is the

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absolute best place for us to start working together. So, again,

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that's she dreams of alpine.com/waitlist, and

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you can learn all about it there. So that's it for today, folks. I

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hope you get to spend some time outside this week, and I'll be back

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very soon with a brand new episode. Bye.

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I teach women how to become safe, confident, and self-sufficient backpackers – no matter what level of experience or time in their life they’re starting from.